10 Things You Can Do to Support Your Blogger Friends

I don’t know why, but lately, I’ve been sharing my blog more and more often with the people I know in real life. Most people in my direct entourage know about it, so it now comes to me more naturally. It’s not this big secret anymore, and I’m talking about it more openly to the people around me (yes, even people that I’ve only just met!). I used to be ashamed of it (I didn’t want to be seen as this weird girl who spends all of her time writing fanfiction in her room), but now I’m proud of what I have accomplished.

More and more people tell me they know about my blog and I always find myself surprised to find out they actually read my posts regularly. Why? Because there’s actually no trace of them doing so!

You have a blogger friend and you're not sure how to show them you care? Click through to find out what are the 10 things you can do as a reader to support bloggers!

Friends and family members have asked me how they can support my blog even though they are not bloggers themselves. While I do appreciate the verbal feedback, there are also tons of ways for non-blogger readers to show their support online! (I actually believe it means even more when the readers are not blogger themselves). Here’s what you can do to support your blogger friends. 

Comment on their post

Your friend wrote an awesome post that you absolutely loved? Let them know! If you want to take the conversation to the next level, leaving a comment on their post is a great way to do so. It’s easy and I swear it will make your friend’s day! Bloggers love getting comments and replying to them – we just love knowing that people are actually reading and enjoying our count! And it’s always nice to know that people are actually responding well to a post that you wrote. Would you believe me if I said that, almost a year later, I still get comments on this post? It surprises me every time.

Share their post

Want to help your blogger friend get out there? Share their posts! If you loved it and think other people might like it too, sharing is a fast and easy way to show your support. Who knows, maybe someone from your network will end up loving your blogger friend’s content! Sharing is a great way to spread the word about your friend’s blog and it can go a long way! Just one share can help put your friend’s post in front of an entirely new audience who might end up loving their content. You can share on social media (like Facebook or Twitter) or via email… either way, we are always grateful!

Use their affiliate links

Do you know how much time, effort, and money goes being having a blog? You wouldn’t believe how much a year bloggers spend on running their blog. Whether it is photography equipment, hosting or courses, bloggers spend hundreds of dollars every year just to keep their blog running.

Thankfully, there are ways for us to monetize our blog – one of which being affiliate marketing. Affiliate marketing means that when people buy stuff online using your referral link, you make a small commission, at no extra cost to the person who purchased something. Most bloggers are part of some affiliate programs, including retailers that you probably buy at quite often (like Amazon). So the next time you make an online purchase, ask your blogger friend if they have a referral link. That way, you’re actively supporting their blog and you don’t even have to pay a cent more than what you were going to pay anyway! Going through the affiliate link will just take like 5 extra seconds of your time and it’s hugely appreciated.

*Also, side note: with Amazon, there’s a cookie where no matter what you end up purchasing after having click the affiliate link, the blogger will still get a commission. So even if you don’t buy whatever the blogger is recommending, you’re still sending some money their way! 

Understand that they’re going to be taking pictures and videos of EVERYTHING

If you have blogger friends, chances are you already know this. My friends know by now that when we go out to eat, I’m going to have to take a cute picture of my drink and my meal (and probably theirs too), so you better be ready. If your friend is anything like me, please ask before you start digging into your food. We know we’re a lot to handle, but your patience will be appreciated. (And it also doesn’t normally take more than 5 minutes to take the picture and upload it to Instagram, so please bear with us for a little while.)

Also, please don’t make fun of us for taking pictures and videos. For some people, blogging is an actual JOB, meaning they live off it. Even if it’s only a part-time gig, would you like me to go visit you at your retail/office/waitressing/whatever-it-is-you-do job and make fun of you for working? No? Well, it’s as unpleasant to me to hear you laugh at me for trying to get the perfect picture.

Send them an email

Maybe you don’t like commenting on people’s blogs because it’s too public or you’re reading from your phone and you just can’t make the commenting system work in your favor. That’s okay, we get it. How about sending your favorite blogger a quick email or text to let them know just how much you liked their new post? I swear it pleases us just as much when our readers reach out to us directly! I still cannot help but smile every time someone emails me asking for advice or just to let me know they love what I do.

Sign up to their newsletter

A blogger’s most important tool (aside from their blog) is their email list. Why? Because if a social media platform shuts down one day without further notice, we lose all of our followers. We have no control over social media platforms. Our email list is the only place where we truly own our audience.  So if you want to stay up-to-date with your favorite blogger’s content and show your support, the best way to do it is through their email list.

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Follow them on social media

I know I just said that email lists are the best way to show support, but social media is uber important too. More and more brands look into bloggers’ social media following when taking collaborations into consideration, and just a follow on whichever platforms you are using can help us out. It’s also a great way to interact with your favorite bloggers and stay up to date on their content!

Engage with their content

If there’s one thing you need to remember about this entire post, let it be this: engagement is everything. In a world where followers and likes can be bought, engagement goes a long way. It’s actually the #1 thing brands now look at when choosing influencers for partnerships and sponsored opportunities (or at least, that’s what they should be looking at). How can you engage with a blogger’s content? Leave a comment on their blog, reply to their tweet, answer their survey, leave a comment on their latest Instagram picture, participate in their giveaway if you’re interested, retweet their tweet, leave a comment on their Facebook post, etc. There are SO many ways you can engage with a blogger’s content that require next to no effort on your part, so if you want to help, that’s the best way to do it!

Spread the word

So maybe your friend’s blog is just not your cup of tea. I get it. I mean, depending on the niche, it might not be what interests you. Maybe your friend is a fashion blogger, but you would much rather be curling up with a good book than go out shopping (aka me). If that’s the case, you can still spread the word! If you know anyone who might be interested in your friend’s blog, please don’t hesitate to share it. Who knows, maybe they’ll gain a new reader!

Just ask

If you want to help but are not sure how you can, just ask! No one who’ll be in a better position to answer than your blogger friend. There are probably tons of ways to help that I can’t even think of right now, so asking never hurts!

How do you like to support your blogger friends?

  • I really love this post! The same thing happens to me where people tell me they like my blog, but I didn’t even know they were reading it.

    • I’m glad you liked it, Katrina! I think the issue is that people just don’t know what they can do to help! Blogging is still fairly new to quite a lot of people, and non-bloggers just don’t think they can do anything to help, but it’s actually the opposite!

  • OMG yes please don’t make fun of us for always taking pictures! It literally breaks my heart every time someone does that. Like bro, I don’t make fun of what you do. SO CHILL.

    • Girl, I’m with you on this one! My friends and family always make fun of me, but most of them are super impressed with my pictures and my blog, so I know they don’t mean it in a bad way. I think people just don’t know how to react as they don’t do it themselves. But still, it hurts. Like you said, I don’t make fun of what you do, so chill!

  • The Sunday Mode

    I try and do as many of these as I can because I genuinely love supporting other bloggers. One thing I keep forgetting to do though is shop using people’s affiliate links, on Youtube I find it easy to do but through blogging I’ll often forget to use that specific link because I just go off on a tangent online researching products and stuff! Will definitely try and make more of an effort there.

    Julia // The Sunday Mode

    • I’m the same, Julia! I try to do all of this as often as I can, but I’m quite terrible at using affiliate links – I always forget! This is really something that I need to try to do more often.

  • Molly O’Connor

    Amelie, I LOVE. THIS. POST. Every single one of these is spot on and it’s literally tugging at my heart because they all mean so much to me when someone does one of them to me!! Especially just the asking. Something so simple can go such a long way!


    • Aw, I’m so glad you enjoyed it, Molly! I think just asking can go such a long way! Sometimes, the simplest things can be the ones that end up meaning the most. And I agree, every single one of these mean so much tome when someone does them to me!

  • Julia Amodeo

    This! I love this a ton. Often I do things for my blog that make complete sense to me, but the people around me will be confused. “Why do you need a picture of that?” “What are you doing?” They don’t mean it to be mean, but it doesn’t feel good. All of these are spot on and explained so well!

    • Thank you Julia! And it’s the same for me! My parents and friends are becoming more used to see me create the perfect flatlay and take pictures of everything, but some people still make fun of me. It’s making perfect sense to me, but it confuses the people around me. As you said, they don’t say it to be mean, but it still hurts when they laugh at you. I’m glad you enjoyed the post!

  • I’m still quite uncomfortable sharing my blog with friends and family offline because it feels like a very sensitive, private part of myself that I’m not quite ready to share with them. That being said, I have a lot of non-blogging friends online that support me and I love it! These are great tips. I definitely think commenting, even if it’s only a line or two, can be a real boost and fuel inspiration.

    • It’s totally okay, Sydney! It took me an entire year before I shared it with my BFFs and my family, so I totally understand where you’re coming for. Even now, I get uncomfortable when they talk to me about it, but it becomes easier every time. And I agree, commenting is probably my favorite way of showing support! As you said, it’s a real mood-booster and it can fuel inspiration.

  • These are some great tips. I haven’t shared my blog with my friends and family yet simply because it’s still in the early stages, but when I do later on I will certainly keep some of these tips in mind! Thanks for sharing x

    • Don’t worry about it! It took me a whole year to share my blog with my friends and family (and even now, not everybody knows and it’s been almost 3 years!).

  • I love this! I always feel so rude when my friends tell me how much they love my latest blog posts but when I ask, they haven’t commented on it, shared it or given it a thumbs up. This post is super helpful for friends who want to help, but I always have to remember that it’s not all about the numbers and it’s nice to know someone’s reading and loving my work haha

    • Haha, same Paige! My friends are the same, they tell me they love my blog and yet I never see them comment or share (they always like my stuff on social media though). As you said, I think it’s also important to remember that it’s not all about the numbers! (even though they do make us feel better, haha)